"How Come You Don't Post About Him on Your Page?"

Christmas is HERE.

I had this grand plan to make gifts for the ladies in my life, but that's gone so far out the window now. Those gift card stands are clutch for me this time of year!

I'm preparing to spend a solid 4 days with family, and I'm already hearing those nagging phrases:

"When's the wedding?"

"When are y'all gonna have a baby?"

"So have y'all talked about it?"

 An awesome caricature this guy did of us at the Perry Fair this year when we visited family in GA. (Peep my boo's glasses! Lol) 

An awesome caricature this guy did of us at the Perry Fair this year when we visited family in GA. (Peep my boo's glasses! Lol) 

I've been told by my mother that I don't have the most tact when it comes to voicing my own annoyance with people, but a lot of times I just see no problems with my response folks. I mean, which is it? Do you want us to build together first so you can talk about how we've been together five years and he hasn't asked me yet? Or do you want me to have a kid so you can talk down on how we moved too fast? 

At the end of 2016, I'm reflecting a ton on how much social media plays into the relationships of many of the folks I follow on my own timelines. In our earlier years, I used to worry that us not posting about each other would give off the impression that we really weren't that into each other.  

I grew up.

 

Honestly, we're around each other constantly. I don't want to plaster him on my timeline. We need a break from each other sometimes. 

 I can't resist this pic of him and my niece! It's only in this post for that reason!  

I can't resist this pic of him and my niece! It's only in this post for that reason!  

I've noticed that we actually spend a ton on meaningful time together when we're not on our phones. He'll help me cook, I'll help him work on his truck. We'll play board games or watch an endless string of YouTube videos.  

 

I dont post him on my page because I'm too busy enjoying him! I'm not sure I'll tell the world I'm married until after the wedding, and I need a few more years with him before I can share him with a little one who looks just like us. What's helped us sustain our relationship for this long is not worrying about what the internet thinks. So y'all...and I mean this in the most loving way:

 

Don't worry about what we have going on!